Talk about yourselves, NOT others!

When i had first heard that people love talking about themselves i realized that's not completely true.

If people were really into themselves, they wouldn't be so concerned about who wore the wrong dress, or whose makeup was bad,or whose name to spoil for absolutely no reason.

The only people in the world who i believe talk about themselves are the people who are living a productive life. Because they work hard, are proud of their achievements and would love to flaunt that, they couldn't care less about where their cousin goes, or how much grade a friend gets or who's going out with whom. They don't have time for petty things like fishing out the dirt of someone else's life, and making it public just to ruin their reputation for time pass.The people who talk crap I think do so because they're bored of their lives and have no creative brain cells left to improve themselves and their lives, so instead they use their creativity to make false stories about random people or pass judgments about them.I don't know what pleasure one can get in that! seriously!!!

Whenever i hear that women were made to gossip or that it's their thing i can't help but disagree. I don't think women were born to gossip i think women have way better things to talk about than someone else, they just haven't realized it. Men aren't any less when it comes to talking about people behind their backs, they just don't do it as often because they constantly have something going on in their lives they can talk about.

sad part about all this is you don't even realize when you git sucked into this hole of backbiting and gossiping. You're casually talking to your friend and the next thing you know the conversation is lead into a whole different direction and the person in that direction is not someone you even know, or have seen!!.You just unknowingly end up supporting that persons habit of talking bad.

Voicing opinions is cool! but do it in a just manner, if you don't know crap about a person you have no right to make statements about them that are false or to even doubt them. You have no right to make them appear bad in front of someone else, when no one has asked for your esteemed opinion just keep it to yourself and sleep. Talking insane s**t is not at all cool. No one likes to be talked about behind their back, yet they want to talk about everyone else. I LOVE talking about myself, and the way things are going these days i rather be labeled as 'self centered' than live with the guilt of ruining someones life by speaking false about them behind their back.

I think once people start talking about themselves they'd realize how unproductive they are and how much time and energy they waste, all to reach hell!. When in the end of the day you have nothing interesting to tell about yourself, you will take the initiative to make something out of yourself that is beneficial in the right way for you, your family & friends.

Syeda Fatima ,18