thought for the day archive.February.

2nd February : "there is no point making a change for someone when they aren't able to witness it.Which makes it all the more important to not expect any appreciation from them".
Syeda Fatima,18

3rd February:"Why is it that whenever you're chatting with someone and the messages stop going; it just so happens that the message that always goes is "are you not getting my messages?"!!" Syeda Fatima,18

4th February :"when i look back at my important school years, i cant help but believe i would've done wonders if i wasn't constantly overcome by depression, anxiety or both, without them coming in my way i would've had my head straight and focussed on my aim. However i have no regrets because i learnt a valuable lesson of not getting sidetracked by things that seem important but aren't and always keep reminding myself of the ultimate goal. In the end of the day no one wants to achieve it as much as me." Syeda Fatima,18

5th February: "People are so used to talking about their problems that they've forgotten that a thing called "solution" also exists!!. Syeda Fatima,18

7th February: "It's very easy to hold on to what is difficult to leave, but one should be able to keep their adult peer pressure aside and do what they ought to." Syeda Fatima,18

10th February:" One should always go ahead and do what they feel like doing that very day, 'cos tomorrow you'd just regret not having the same feeling!". Syeda Fatima,18

12th February:"One should never use their background as an excuse to not do better and whats right in life ". Syeda Fatima, 18

13th February: "Under my life's normal circumstances I'm PMSing through out the month!". Syeda Fatima, 18

14th February :"Sometimes people make it way to difficult for someone to approach them and talk some sense into their head". SYeda Fatima, 18

19th February: "A person who doesn't remember his own birthday can't be blamed for not remembering anyone else's. He is most definitely messed up!." Syeda Fatima,18

thought for the day archive. January

9th January: "learn to appreciate the traits u have in order to be able to appreciate them in other people" Syeda Fatima, 18

23rd January: "If in my life I'd ever get a chance to stay alone for even a month, i would never get married and want to live with anyone other than me" Syeda Fatima, 18

24th January: "I can't wait to get to heaven to enjoy the life i'm avoiding on earth!" Syeda Fatima, 18

25th January: "The thing about my life & the way I like to live it, is that i can't bear it getting monotonous & it's easier to make a change when you're alone rather than it having to be made by anyone other than you, for your sake" Syeda Fatima, 18

Education- how to really be interested

Education, i believe is the most important thing to pursue and take serious after your religion.But however it's undoubtedly the most pain in the ass thing to do- again after your religion. And as most of us have asked ourselves the question to why this hatred towards education phenomenon exists, we rarely do come up wit an answer that is satisfying to all the human race. And no one can deny the fact that an answer to this is crucial for the development of a human being at an individual level as well as being productive for his society, country and the world over all.

The reason to why this disinterest in education exists is for allot of reasons. The to cure this problem lies in the identification of the reason and then critically analyzing it which would then lead to a solution that is applicable and would result in a change of attitude. However it is quite noticeable that this hatred for studies and education exists only at a certain age, usually the youth and the schooling period.

If you find someone who loves his/her job their whole outlook to their life and career, they can be a great motivation for you to be interested in learning more about what they do. Surprisingly you can get interested in things you thought were not even worth considering. Similarly its how practically you apply your discipline is what can motivate the students to learn more. the students feel that what they are being taught everyday in a class of not less than 30 students, for 5hrs is something that is totally useless to them, when it is completely the opposite!!

in everyday life when one comes across someone who seems knowledgeable about even the tiniest thing is interests us human beings, because we are made as curious creatures who like to know more and are inquisitive about everything, but we fail to realize that that same person who's enlightening you about that particular topic has also educated himself either in school or by using the resources he had in order to satisfy his curiosity.

so basically the key to get anyone interested in studies is to highlight not the importance of it in way of their career but in it's practicality in everyday life. it's based on a simple theory when someone is investing their time in learning a game they also want to play it!!

Syeda Fatima, 18

thought for the day archive. December

3rd December: "The upper hand is always better than the lower hand"- Prophet Mohd. (PBUH)

6th December: "The best way to live life is to be true to yourself, and stand by what you believe in, that would make it easier for people to realize how shitty you are when you are and not waste their time trying to make sense to you" Syeda Fatima,18

9th December: "Thinking before speaking is the most impractical thing to actually practice in daily life because u mostly don't have that much of time to have a quiet thought. Thinking before writing is still more applicable" Syeda Fatima,18

10th December: "There is a fine line between wanting the worldly things and the things that are actually rightful to be wanted, n the day you find that line, you've won half the battle of life.The rest depends on how much of a go getter you become to achieve those dreams".Syeda Fatima,18

11th December: "The lowest thing one can do is to not admit their mistake and instead stand by their crap and try to prove the other wrong." Syeda Fatima,18

12th December: "The most pathetic thing in the world is the feeling of being controlled by anyone other than your creator" Syeda Fatima,18

13th December: "The phrase 'respect should be earned' doesn't apply to everyone, some people need to be giving respect regardless of what they've done, it doesn't mean u accept defeat it just means you're a bigger person" Syeda Fatima,18

15th December: "Life is short, live it don't worry it"Syeda Fatima,18
* a tribute to Poumi chechi..

16th December:"There's no point walking into a hardware store and asking for a toothpaste.....they don't have it" Syeda Fatima,18

thought for the day archive. November

10th november: "i never in my life prepared myself fer anythin except fer elocution"
Syeda Fatima,18

thought for the day archive. october

21st October: "when one realizes the extent to their capacity and potential to be able to achieve anything they want, even though there has been no change the restrictions seem more", Syeda Fatima,18

22nd October: "you gots to learn to be open minded, your beliefs and principles of life won't be threatened in anyway. It would just make you open to more of the world and people.", Syeda Fatima,18

23rd October: "behind every successful man there is a woman, and the most unlucky man is the one who ignores her and tries to become successful", Syeda Fatima,18

The other forgotten necessity (article)

The other forgotten necessity.

Todays is a fast moving world, where life is becoming a burden and every movement made is right along with the hands of the clock. But being a part of this jungle, not only are we forgetting the main purpose of everything we do,but are also unable to realize that there are actually more important things we ignore while in this quest to perfection and achievement of goals.

It is very common for one to ignore their family and friends, spending extra hours at work,or with the college activities or education. Living away from home is a common phenomenon and is encouraged as well for a better and stable future. But as human beings having one goal set we tend to neglect the fact that there are other things that are actually more important than that extra client you'd arrange a meeting with, or that extra hour in the library you'd spend pondering over material of no use. We tend to embrace these plastic dreams and these goals at the cost of (maybe not intentionally) losing our loved ones. And sometimes those people themselves don't realize that effect caused by this behavior of the busy person on them, but this effect is undeniable.

The commonality of one missing their parents' funeral, or their siblings going through the roughest time of their life at the hospital is not new. But as people who claim to love their family members and friends so much, it is our responsibility to pause our lives, take a deep breath and really think, and figure out if this is the way we chose to live?. If really the satisfaction of work (or maybe not) given more importance than spending a bit of your daily time with the ones that actually do matter is the right thing to do. Its not their fault they cant do what your university, or that country you're living in or that company you're working in can do for you. But surely after achieving all that, wanting them back as though nothing ever happened after keeping them on hold for yrs is not the way!. If you by any chance even after that are expecting them to welcome you with open arms, well, then you're just expecting too much!. Time and distance can change things that no one can help, and the sad possibility is that you might even miss out on those people whom you were working so hard for for good. No one can help the way they feel, some of those people might have changed feelings for you.

Having an aim in life, regarding anything is good. Setting goals helps a person to be focussed and productively live his life. But it is important for one to keep in mind while working so hard on these goals (especially if you're living away from home) to keep in touch with family, be interested in their life, show love and express it, indifferences in relationships are caused mainly due to not giving enough time and support to the ones who need you when they need you. Wanting them to understand your life can happen only when you also make an effort to understand theirs.


All in all; it should be ones goal in life also to always do whatever it takes to keep those people that mean so much to you close,no matter the distance no matter the busy and hectic schedules,no matter the situations of your life because they are merely excuses. Them living their lives; wanting you to be wanting them is not the way.

Never should one underestimate the loss caused by losing of their loved ones, if you truly love them don't ignore them, because the misconception that they should be the ones who should understand your life and be the ones who should bear with you while you are in the process that usually lasts for a long time has to be taken out of our minds and thrown away. Because that is nothing but impractical and selfish, life is to small to have them bear with you because you are way too busy. And in the end of the day you might just end up the loser, who's gained everything material, but lost his/her people in the process.

Syeda Fatima,18